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Howdy, I'm
Ed Born-Long.
Jew's harp music has long
been one of my special interests. I learned to play jew's harp from an Austrian young man
I met in Spains Balearic Islands in 1971. The instrument goes well with so many folk
music styles, like bluegrass and Celtic, for example.
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Since arriving in Austin, Texas, in
the spring of 1978, I spent many years in the roofing business. As I worked my way up
from the field, I was foreman, superintendent, general manager, estimator, and
salesman. However, believe it or not, over the years roofing has lost its
charm. Imagine that.
In
the spring of 2001, I found my perfect career and went to work full time
at SafePlace, Austin's
Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Survival Center. I began
volunteering at SafePlace not long after my daughter Annie
was killed by her former boyfriend in 1997. This fine organization embraced me with warmth, caring, and love, and literally
saved my life through that trying time.
I
spent 2 years on
the SafePlace staff, working with those wonderful people every day
of the week. Most of that time I was in charge of vehicle donations, a very
successful program that brings lots of much-needed money to
SafePlace. In
this picture I'm wearing my 2001 Annie's Team T-shirt. In spring of 1998 we formed Annie's Team
for SafePlace's annual "Walk for Safe Families and Safe
Streets." Each year the Walk is SafePlace's biggest fund
raiser. Thousands of walkers collect donations and walk together in
an awesome display of love and caring. At its acme, 100 members of Annie's
Team were giving their time and efforts to this wonderful cause in honor of
my daughter's memory, and I couldn't be more grateful.
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My beautiful
daughter Emilie, her
husband Clay, my four grandchildren, and my great-grandson live hundreds
of miles away in Colorado, but we stay close through phone and email. They
are all very precious to me and to Chris, an unexpected and amazing
addition to our lives only a few years ago. (Read
all about it.)
I retired in 2004 and really embraced the
concept. For a while I worked a couple of
mornings each week as a golf course marshall, and in trade I got to play
for free, and so did Chris. We weren't very good, but we sure had fun. I
also joined the Bastrop Senior Center in our closest town, about 12 miles
away, and I still enjoy going there once or twice a week to play Texas
Hold 'Em. We have a good group of old-timers like me, and their
companionship means a lot to me.
In May 2009 Chris and I took a vacation
to Chicago, our home town. We had been having a great time acting like
tourists and visiting with Chris's cousins when, on the morning of our
fourth day, I had a stroke. Long story short (and it is a long story), I
was very lucky. The main result of the stroke is the effect on my speech
and other language-based brain functions. My condition is called
expressive aphasia. As of the end of 2010, I have been in speech therapy
in one form or another ever since the stroke. I make slow, steady
progress. It's frustrating sometimes, but not overwhelming. I enjoy my
life. I am able to drive, and I go out to lunch often by myself. Getting
out with other people is the best therapy, making conversation whenever I
can.
I do depend on Chris for lots and lots of
help...but then, I always have.
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